update to 1.0.2
drop patches merged upstream
install missing header using patch from
https://github.com/mongodb/libmongocrypt/pull/90
(cherry picked from commit 8d3676eb39525666652fb4f1d35c293f386f99f8)
(cherry picked from commit 3391b33a261adafc476d28cb5c630fa8db38041a)